They threw out us from the skies, and it was necessary for us
to make all efforts in order to be held
on halfway between sky and hell.
Dzh. L. moraine

1. From the personal life of the sociotypes.

The experience of observations of the personal life of diverse the sociotypes, gotten in the course of consultations, makes possible for me to make some generalizations. In that proposed I will show to article, how it is possible to forecast the trend of development of relations in the pair man- woman, if their sotsiotipy are known. It is necessary to immediately say that the concrete forecast by the methods of traditional sotsioniki is impossible.

The practitioner of the work of our laboratory he speaks, that for investigating the attitudes of people on the short communicative distances are necessary the deeper levels of differentiation [ 3 ]. And nevertheless, investigating the erotic side of the relations between the people, it is possible to isolate, from one side, the subjects of feelings, and with another, their objects.

The subjects of feelings - these are the sources of sympathies and antipathies, which assume their subjective evaluation of another person as the reliable. They include the people, confident in their emotional selection. Having a surplus of feelings, they consciously to be pulled to those, who could divide their charge of experiences. In the personal life by them it is more important to love by itself than to be dear. It is more accurate, they do not lose the hope to excite a reciprocal feeling in those, who subjectively attract them. Specifically, in the subjects of feelings you most probably will meet love one-sided, without the reciprocity.

The objects of feelings - this those, who ignite itself only in response to a feeling of other. In any case they do not manifest their feelings first, since they are not assured in its emotional (not to confuse with the sexual!) selection. Therefore act the objects of feelings in a simplest manner: they expect any signal that they zhelanny. On the sympathy they, as a rule, answer sympathies, while on the antipathy - by antipathies. The subjects of feelings, from the point of view of sotsioniki, this of the ethics, which by heart live more than by mind. Objects of feelings - this of logic, that live more by mind, than by heart impulses. Ethics, therefore, stop their sensual selection on that, who pleases herself by them; however, logic is selected usually that, they please themselves whom.

Note. I focus attention of the readers to the fact that the discussion deals not about the sexual, but with the ethics- emotional behavior. By sympathy in this context I will understand sincere, but not carnal inclination.

However, it is not necessary to forget, that the communicability of man is not limited to the limits of one personal life. In its biography besides family and friends are the second, not less essential part - colleagues and business partners. And here everything proceeds precisely the opposite. Logician to work pays always more forces and attention, than ethics. One ought not this assertion to understand so that the first carries out more time on the work, than by the second. Indeed, find on the work, it is possible among the objectively necessary matters to satisfy its personal communicative needs!

2. Some expect, and others act.

Position is complicated by the fact that these two categories of people realize their internal motives - work to the detriment of the personal life or vice versa - differently. Here it is possible to isolate also two extremes, between which koleblyutsya the people.

The first - this is the wait and see attitude. Those types, which are inclined to assume strange proposals to the examination occupy it. Conscious expectation can be directed to the side of business proposals, if this of logic, or proposals of personal nature, if this of ethics. One way or another, this is the position OF INTROVERTOV - those types, which assume more than they issue, and even if they issue, then in essence in response to the external action.

Opposite position - expansive, broadening. Its possessors themselves display initiative, without expecting, until this others make. Ethics with this position, furthermore, are initiative-taking in the personal life, and logic - in the objective matters. This behavior is characteristic for EKSTRAVERTOV - those types, which more greatly issue to verbal or behavioral information, than it from others assumes.

But now the pair of observations about the communicability. Retreat on this theme is necessary because the concept of extra -introversii treats in sotsionike entirely not in the manner that in traditional psychology. Among the psychologists was formed the steadfast opinion that ekstraverty - this is compulsory sociable people, and introverty - locked. But if this then is simple, then why it did be necessary by Young to introduce new terms?

Contact occurs different. We must clearly divide formal contact and nonformal. Ethical ekstravetry, if these are clean types, it is actually in any situation oriented to the human contacts. But are very contact many ethical introverty. This is not amazing, indeed they feel well themselves precisely in the nonformal situation, where a subjective feeling plays the main role.

However, logical types, even ekstravertnye, under these conditions can be by entirely noncontact, indeed here they are deprived of orientators and therefore they occur altogether only the objects of strange sympathy- antipathies. However, in the production everything proceeds precisely the opposite. Active subjects of the matters - this ekstravertnye of logic. Their directivity to the external business environment is maximum with the formal contact. On contactability not with the friends, but with the people as the executors of the function responsibilities logical ekstraverty considerably exceed ethical.

3. Forms of communicability.

Let us first dismantle the contrasting, easily noticeable in the life forms of communicability - 3kstravertno- ethical and introvertno- logical.

1. Ekstravertnye ethics, or PASSIONATE (PASSIONATE) . Their position in the contact - active search for feelings. They bear emotions to the surrounding people for their vital scenario characteristically that that they into the average earlier than all are married or leave marry. They are more frequently than the representatives of another the sociotypes, they dilute. Contact they understand as the exchange of emotions as unique "floating" in the turbulent flow of life. Designation of this group ER: in the block Ego of this four of types is present either the ethics of emotions E as the first function or the ethics of relations R as the second function.

2. Introvertnye of logic, or COLD-BLOODED (COLDBLOODED) . Group Of communicability, Opposite To passionate. Their position in the nonformal contact - passive expectation of feelings. The communicability of these types flows over the kept balance diagrams and the standards. Their vital scenarios assume the latest marriages and the absence of repeated marriages. Their marriages, as a rule, are least successful. Contact understands as the exchange of the missing information of explanatory nature. This communicability lost nothing, if it were achieved only in the written form. This group we will designate LP: in the block Ego of these types is present either the structural logic L as the first function or business logic R as the second function. Among these two poles the communicability - bright and dim - are located its two average of form, which are plotted in the framework of the manufactured by society stereotypes of the behavior of the persons of opposite floor.

3. Ekstravertnye of logic, or BUSINESS (Business-inclined) - the man stereotype of communicability. It is possible to name the active expectation of feelings it. Business sotsiotipy expect to meet their elect or elect among the file of the matters. They assign the active stand in life to the standard means of real man, but only not in the region of feelings. In the romantic literature the hero becomes acquainted with his future beloved, rescuing it from the misfortune. Contact these sotsiotipy understand as business collaboration. This group is designated PL: in their block Ego business logic R comes out as the first function, or the structural logic L - as the second function.

4. Introvertnye ethics, or SINCERE (SINCERE) - the female stereotype of communicability. This position can be described as the passive search for feelings. Sincere sotsiotipy, being ethics confidently tyuey vybiryut the commanding them partner, but as introverty express their readiness for the ethical contacts, giving any indirect signals. Specifically, traditional morals requires such behavior from woman in the premarital period. This category of the sociotypes is most inclined to the "patriarchal" scenario with the stereotype distribution of the man and female responsibilities: man - breadwinner of family and her defender, woman - keeper of center and the educator of children. Contact is understood as the exchange of the signs of sincere attachment. Group has a designation RE: in the sociotypes of this group in the block Ego is present either the ethics of relations R as the first function or the ethics of emotions E as the second function.

4. To whom it is better with whom.

4. 1.

With the analysis of between-group relations I will rest on the following, the the known to me according to the experience of sotsionicheskikh observations and consultations the vital tendencies:

ethics instinctively it is pulled to logic and vice versa; the psychological atmosphere in the purely logical pair is too dry and dull, and in the purely ethical - very agitated and oversaturated by experiences. Second on the attracting force is possible between two logicians, if one of them possesses the intensive emotionalism, or between two ethics, if one of them possesses the intensive rationality.
introvert instinctively is pulled to ekstravertu and vice versa, although the force of this attraction is not so strong as in the first case. Ekstraverty conquer, and introverty make it possible themselves to conquer. The peaceful co-existence of two ekstravertov is possible if and only if they will artificially delimit their spheres of activity. Almost always however in this pair appears power contest, and that lost feels itself pinched. The union of two introvertov can be neplokh when someone of them will take upon itself the role of subject active in the external peace. Without this special measure a similar pair is practically doomed to the self-insulation.

4. 2.

Conducting sotsionicheskuyu consultation on the harmonization of interpersonal relations in the pair, I recommend to consider the following averaged scenarios of intertipnoy dynamics.

1. Business (PL) and sincere (RE). Successful combination of two it is specific communicability, that makes it possible to dostich' homeostasis - self-sustaining state of equilibrium both inside the system and in interaction with the environment. With the appearance of the internal differences between such partners of business as ekstravert actively it acts on sincere and that without the special resistance it yields to its influence. The equilibrium is restored because of the skill of sincere to smooth out sharp angles. When in this pair conflicts with those surrounding appear, then much more greatly survives sincere, since it ethics. However, because of its intro-version it simply presents problem business, which undertakes the appropriate measures. As a result of vapor it proves to be steady and against the destructive outside influence.

2. Passionate (ER) and cold-blooded (LP). One additional successful combination it is specific to communicability, capable of ensuring natural self-adjustment in the pair. Scenario is turned as follows.

With the appearance of internal differences passionate begins to act on cold-blooded from the positions of ekstravertnoy expansion for the purpose to change its behavior into its benefit. However, cold-blooded as little subjected to emotions type does not yield to these attempts. Its behavior in the course of time is nevertheless reconstructed simply as a result of the fact that its own estimation of situation changes. Passionate experiences from this satisfaction, yes even its flame by that time already cools, and conflict naturally goes out.

In the case of the external aggression cold-blooded is inclined to ignore it and to be occupied its matter as if nothing were the matter. This restrained position very commands passionate, since it makes possible for it to independently manage the emergent problems of ethical nature. Inside those describe aboved it is specific interactions they hide themselves in the generalized form of 4 intertipnykh relations. The most successful combinations (if types are clean!) - THESE ARE DUAL RELATIONS ADMINISTRATOR - HUMANIST, FINDER - MEDIATOR, COORDINATOR - LYRIC POETRIES... Then follow poludual'nye, reviznye and conflicting. Even conflicting relations with the distance up to the safe distance possess stability. However, dual relations, on the contrary, ensure homeostasis only on the close communicative distance.

4. 3.

Two following forms of interrelations ensure psychological homeostasis only partially. Compatability between them takes average values. Destructive prove to be either external destructive actions or internal differences.

3. Business (PL) and cold-blooded (LP). Events are turned usually on this scenario. Both in this pair are sufficiently indifferent to the ethical actions of partner. Business attempts to use cold-blooded for its purposes, but its attempt to nothing they do not lead. In the course of time, after a number of failures the tendency of business to change situation on its own taste fades, and partners move away themselves from each other. Interior equilibrium, thus, nevertheless is established.

In the relations with those surrounding the pair proves to be insensitive. Each is occupied with its matter. However, if external actions are so strong that even they are capable of neglecting the low-activity ethical functions of partners, then quarrels apropos of reciprocal actions appear between them. To restore the disrupted equilibrium with the external peace is very difficult.

4. Passionate (ER) and sincere (RE). The special features of rubbing to each other are here such. Each in the pair, since both ethics, feel well that the conflict emergent between them very negative affects the vital activity of other. However, only sincere will try to change its own behavior. Passionate will require changing the behavior of partner. Since sincere is inferior, then peace after a number of emotional is splash nevertheless it is restored.

If in this pair problems with those surrounding appear, scenario immediately is dramatized. The tendency to transfer the aggravation of external relations to its own conflicts is outlined in them. Any consideration of external events under these conditions easily leads to the quarrel. The motive power of a similar scenario - surplus of emotionalism. Equilibrium in this pair is unstable against the internal differences.

5. To whom it is worse with whom.

1. Passionate (ER) and business (PL). This vital scenario, perhaps, is the most dynamic and is most contradictory. Since both ekstraverty, each attempts to change the behavior of partner. Both are active and do not desire to be adjusted slightly under other. Business finds to itself vent in an even larger quantity of matters, and passionate attempts to explain the aggravated relations. Conflict because of this even more greatly is fanned. In the relations with those surrounding both they attempt actively to act on external peace they begin to compete between themselves for the leadership. Business in these collisions playing more active role, because it considers that passionate by its emotional impetuosity harms common cause. Pair proves to be unsociable: in it it is very difficult to dostich' resistance both to the internal and to the external negative factors.

2. Sincere (RE) and cold-blooded (LP). The vital scenario, which is pierced by internal contradictions and fluctuations. Because of the intro-version with the appearance of differences each attempts to, first of all, change itself. However, response is sincere more rapid and more noticeable. Therefore it begins to consider that it sacrifices itself for the peace in the pair. However, cold-blooded these peacemaking actions as and does not note. Impression is created, that it does not value the self-sacrifice of sincere. This generates tension in their interrelations. Change environment to the favorable for themselves side because of all of the same intro-version they cannot. Therefore external negative actions on this pair can easily destroy it. Moreover more unstable in this respect it proves to be sincere as having tendency toward the sensitive perception of external sympathy- antipathies. Consequently, this pair does not possess the effective mechanisms of the maintenance of homeostasis.

3. Two Business (PL). Both attempt to act on partner for achieving of their own goals, but both are insensitive to such actions. Because of this in the pair brief, but intensive conflicts frequently burst. Both attempt to influence those surrounding, but they do not know how to properly agree on their actions. Each everything does for that, in order to to turn the course of events into its benefit. Compatability is satisfactory if and only if both speak as the solid front against external competitor.

For joint enterprise better be suitable the sotszakaznye combinations of types. It is noticeable that the customer is pulled to the receiver, hoping to find in it contractor (executor) for its concepts [ 4 ].

4. Two Passionate (ER). In this high(ly)-communicable pair not to avoid petty charges in the address of each other. Each will ekstravertno act on other, but no one will begin to be inferior. These partners it will seem that another is not understood it; therefore will be present the strong desire to vyasnyat' relation. However, the attempts to prove to partner their own rightness, as a rule, conclude with anything. Conflict because of this for long does not fade.

In the contacts with environment both will compete in the emotional influence on it. It is easy to quarrel this pair, since emotional redundancy in it must find some discharging. In the case of settling mutual interests against the external encroachments the coordination of combined actions is hindered. Reaching equilibrium communication in the pair for the prolonged period is unreal.

5. Two Sincere (RE). Each in this pair will be it attempts in every way possible to leave from the collisions. This stabilizes pair as whole. But if conflict between them nevertheless arises, then each will perceive its reason in the actions of other. This reduces the degree of reciprocity in the relations. Pair although compromise, touchy and neotkrovennaya.

Each will attempt to solve independently external problems, without resorting to the aid of other, since rapidly it is convinced, that the boost to the impulse actions outside to nothing does not lead. Consequence of this position - mutual disappointment in the competitive ability of each other. However, the presence of common acceptable purpose can join "sincere" pair sufficiently strongly. This task must consist in the maintenance of the warm psychological atmosphere and prevailing attachments within the framework of the micro-association significant for them. For example, training children.

6. Two Cold-blooded (LP). Very unsuccessful vital scenario for lack of activity and sincere heat. Each of the partners is insensitive to the efforts of other and otklikayetsya to its actions with the significant delay. Therefore pair although does not dispute, actually and it does not interact positively. One leaves at rest of another and it is contented, that it also they do not catch. The appearing conflict fades rapidly, since no one not "does pour oils into the fire".

With a change in the external circumstances each of the members of pair independently tries to be adapted to the changes. Aid to each other okazyvetsya minimum. In the pair because of this the atmosphere of alienation is added. To increase compatability in it can the following joining purpose - development of diagrams, procedures, instructions, forecasts.

6. Contact with the psychoanalysis.

If we understand under the psychoanalysis of the development of the unconscious reasons of the trudnoprognoziruyemykh actions or experiences of man, connected to one degree or another his libido, then sotsionika is located in its set of instruments several pairs of differential it is indicative, which let with the stretch, but everyone after all makes it possible to briefly simulate some

the psychoanalytical special features of personality. What these are signs? First, axis "sensorika- intuition". Action of its poles in many respects unconsciously. Intuitive flashes and illumination - this is complete opposition to the rational experience, obtained by many months and for years. However, Sensorika - this, on the essences, innate are instinctive reactions to the possible irritations of the organism interacting with the medium, which also root in the subconsious part of the psyche. By the way, at the everyday level it is sensory - irrational types name the Young function of sensoriki also intuition.

In the second place, axis "rezolyutivnost'-diskutivnost'". With the aid of this pair is indicative sotsion it is divided into two pairs of kvadr. Second and third kvadry prove to be "resolute" - decisive (Lat. resolvo - I solve, untangle, untie), i.e. inclined to the rigid, those sharply resolving contradictions to volitional reports. First and fourth kvadry are "diskutivnymi" - by consultative (Lat. discutio - I discuss, discuss), i.e. inclined to the open and wide discussion of the actions of contradictions appearing on the motion. This pair of typological is indicative, closely related to the vital values of kvadr, beret its beginning, evidently, in the Young archetypes of collective unconscious.

Groups being isolated with the aid of these two axes I analyze through the prism of the concealed psycho-sexual tendencies of the sociotypes. I focus attention of the readers, that now the discussion will deal faster with the instinctive, carnal aspect of erotic relations in contrast the spiritual, the platonical, to examination of which is dedicated first half of this article.

Thus, axis "sensorika - the intuition", which I draw for the conditional representation of the individual forms of unconscious, intersecting orthogonally with the axis "rezolyutivnost'-diskutivnost'", that presents in the first approximation, those mental orientators, which Young called collective unconscious, are formed four psychoanalytical groups of the sociotypes: sensorika | AGGRESSIVE | THOUGHTFUL | resolute- | -diskutivnye | VIKTIMNYE | ARE INFANTILE | the intuition

Let us appropriate these names to the obtained groups:

Diskutivnye sensoriki enthusiast, mediator, administrator, master (S- group) - "thoughtful" - CAREFUL (letter designations of the sociotypes see at the end of the article).
Resolute sensoriki coordinator, inspector, politician, keeper (F- group) - "aggressive" - AGGRESSIVE.
Resolute intuity, teacher, lyric poetries, criticisms, owner, (T- group) - "Viktimnye" (Lat. victima - victim) - Victim- face.
Diskutivnye intuity analyst, finder, humanist, adviser (I- group) - "infantile" (Lat. infantilis - children's, infantile) - INFANTILE.

For our purpose to more conveniently examine the man and female types of pootdel'nosti.

Female types.

"thoughtful" woman, or "woman is mother". It is inclined to be a guardian its partner of masculine sex. Inclination to the weak, but intelligent men, who are subordinated by it in the daily matters, is experienced. By it to pleasantly protect them, to support, to priobodrit'. Similar qualities of nature, which in the mass consciousness do not cause respect for the persons of masculine sex, this woman pardons or it considers it completely acceptable.
Woman - "aggressor". Always attempts to compete with the man, including in the erotic relations. It is inclined to the irony, the mockeries above the opposite floor. It loves to feel itself more competent than man in any matter. During the amorous game it expects from the man of flatteries, showy weakness, emotional instability.
"viktimnaya" woman. The ideal of this woman - physically strong man, who resembles is super-exchange from the American fighters. It desires to undergo his force, to resist his strong pressure, to feel itself with victim. In the amorous games the preference is given to the different forms of the opposition, which kindle the passion of partner. In women of this type are now and then immanently inherent mazokhistskiye features. Pravda far from all of them return to itself in this report.
"infantile" woman, or "woman- daughter". The ideal of this woman - this is the good and experienced, well fitted out to the life man, it is usually older it with respect to the age. In the presence of this man she feels itself by small girl, almost in entire dependent on it. In the amorous game the preference is given to psychological factor - heart-to-heart talk, arranging music, creation of conditions for the relaxation. Above in all it values condescension and concern.

Man types.

"thoughtful" man, or man- father. Experienced and attentive to the spiritual peace of woman partner, who knows how to arrange her to itself by protective care. In the amorous game greatly values female tenderness and the lack of defense, awaits admiration by its life experience and by craftsmanship.
Man - "aggressor". This sotsiotip has a tendency toward forced ovledeniyu by woman. In the amorous game it loves to demonstrate fight. Roughness can allow itself, sometimes causes to women pain - both physical and moral. It expects from the woman of subordination to force.
"viktimnyy" man. It idealizes vlasnuyu woman. It is adjusted slightly under its tastes, it respects in it volitional qualities. In the behavior first emphasizes its dependence and obedience, then it escapes from under the control. In the relations with the woman it subconsiously expects orders, dirty tricks, reproaches. Without obtaining similar reactions, their manifestation involuntarily provokes.
"infantile" man, or man son dependent, naive in the everyday matters, expects from the woman of business and emotional support. Involuntarily emphasizes its oboydennost' by attention, the ruined abilities, unpracticalness to the vital fight. Respects in the women experience and responsiveness to its problems.

7. Psycho-sexual compatability.

1. "thoughtful" woman. Not it priyemlet from the man of strong, but rough lask. The power erotic game deprived of prelude suppresses its sexuality; therefore its men -supermeny disappoint. The behavior of the man compatible with it must be infantile, i.e. timid, vyzhidayushchemanyashchim. This woman loves kindness, which are expressed in the tender, podetski weak touchs to the erogennym zones.

Relation with its Viktimnym man also they do not arrange, since its capriciousness, tricks and provocation of its force astonish and repulse. Relations with its identical on psycho-sexual aspirations thoughtful man in the course of time disappoint, although, in principle, it nothing against and has. Sooner or later among the comfort, by which it they surrounded, it will perceive a deficiency in the spirituality.

2. "aggressive" woman. Searches for object for its vlasnykh and impulse erotic actions. Most of all it arranges the man, who behaves with it obediently, but it is capricious. Then it has an occasion for the aggression. Viktimnyy man idolizes this woman and he at the same time is scared it. Its behavior can be compared with the behavior of the page, who wholly devotes himself to service "excellent lady". Constant game - better medicine for the satiety.

In the relations with the infantile man by it not it will be sufficient play submissiveness from his side. Its unwillingness to be adapted to the aggressive moves cannot but place this union on the face of break. Relations with the "aggressor" of masculine sex by it, from one side, l'styat and they whip its ardor, but, from other side, and they repulse, since they do not lead to the desired victory. Therefore they can enjoy only variable success. However, thoughtful man will make nervous by his its relation to it as to the small child, which she receives as humiliation.

3. "viktimnaya" woman. Skillfully it plays on its weakness, lack of defense or lack of organization, provoking thus aggressive man to the impulse and decisive actions. In the amorous games the greatest value for it have strong embraces and the force of the man body, being inferior to which it demonstrates its submissiveness to the will of man.

Thoughtful type men seem it by convenient, but too dull partners, and infantile it in the soul considers and completely 4493312 by weakwilled slabakami. With similar itself type men Viktimnaya woman it enters into the complex, with the undercurrent of relation, competing with them in the spirit of sacrifice and requiring for this special privileges. Frequently similar games literally harass both.

In this place I consider it necessary to mention that the psychoanalytical groups are examined without the special detailing; therefore separate thinner differences inside them disappear. In particular, among Viktimnykh T of types remains without the attention the fact that they usually are subdivided into "tragic victims" (YET and THOSE) and "comic victims" (TR and RT).

4. "infantile" woman. In the erotic life of a woman of this type the greatest value have thin kindness and psychologism of relations. It, having no special intentions, demonstrates by its behavior brittleness and children's naivete. Infantile woman easily assumes the matters and the enthusiasm of the partner, to whom she sympathizes with. In the amorous games she with the pleasure catches the initiative of thoughtful man, manifesting its own refinement and fantasy.

On it is super-exchange, i.e. aggressive type men, this woman, of course, focuses attention, but to converge with them fears because of their instinktivnosti and crudity. Viktimnogo type its type arrange only partial: romantically it begins, but then introduces into the bewilderment by its demonstration of sufferings and by unpredictability. However, with the men of the identical infantile type it will compulsorily feel discomfort from nedodostatka of the concern about its daily needs. In this pair the degree of alienation will slowly grow.

8. Strangenesses of talents.

Concluding the description of psychoanalytical groups, I want to focus attention of the readers to the circumstance that the meeting substantial difference at the age between the husbands has besides social (consideration of material- money nature) still and clearly expressed psychoanalytical roots. I will resemble the well-known fact that the men of creative professions (poets, artists, artists, philosophers, etc.), especially most talented of them, frequently select to themselves in friend and the wives of women are considerably older themselves. Why?

In all likelihood, the creation is connected with strong development of the functions of intuition - either I or T. But this, as we already know, belonging the groups of infantile and Viktimnykh the sociotypes. About the same writes 3. bern, who connects creative beginning in the man with the 3go- state "child" [ 2 ]. I T -soqiotipy need the patronage of sensory the sociotypes - experimental and practical in the life. Life experience comes with the years; therefore separately creative intuitivy are selected in the quality of the satellite of the life of mature person.

Examples. By i. v. Goethe found to himself beloved in the person Of sharlotty von shtayn, which was to seven years older him. German philosopher F. V. Schelling was to ten years younger their elect Carolinas Schlegel. By the companion of El Salvador gave it became Russian Helen dmitriyevna D'yakonova, who was borne to 20 years of earlier it.

By more normal is received the fact that the mature men, who lead by business or by political organizations (as a rule, F S- types), are married the entirely young friends, frequently their secretaries. For example, the leader of the Palestine Liberation Organization Yasir Arafat in 63 years was married to the 29- summer drier Tauil'. The wife of the Minister of Foreign Affairs OF THE FRG Hans Dietrich Genshera became his secretary Barbara.

They can object to me: this occurs because of the tendency of young I will give to the material prosperity. But this only confirms that the social templates root in the typological caused individual tendencies. The satellite of life considerably younger themselves select exactly separately active and experimental sensory sotsiotipy, which belong to the groups of aggressive and thoughtful. Them it instinctively draws to the young and the unripe, which need patronage and they will worship before their force and experience.

However, rule not without the exceptions, especially, if we deal concerning the most secret human feeling, capable of creating any miracles.

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